By Stephanie Daniil and Maria Ottomanelli
Being raised as Greek Americans, we have found a few things that feel universal among Greek moms. Every family is different, of course, but these traditions, questions and lovingly persistent food offers will look very familiar in plenty of Greek households.
1. They tell you to eat
Food is a necessity in every Greek household, and a Greek mom is always ready to make sure you have had enough.
2. They ask a million questions
The number one question is often, “Are they Greek?”
3. They speak at full volume
We are not being loud. We are Greek. That is simply how we talk.
4. They make avgolemono when you are sick
Avgolemono is a comforting soup made with egg and lemon mixed into broth. If you are sick, a bowl is likely on the way whether you requested it or not.
5. They make a spitting sound to counteract the evil eye
A Greek mom may make a symbolic spitting sound after a compliment as a traditional gesture associated with warding off the evil eye.
6. Church can mean dressing up
In some Greek households, church calls for proper clothes. The children may be dressed as though they are attending a banquet or wedding.
7. The koutala gets waved
Some of us grew up with a few choice Greek phrases and a dramatically waved koutala, or wooden spoon, as part of the family folklore. Sometimes the shoe enters the story too.
8. Family vacations often mean Greece
For plenty of Greek American families, the vacation shortlist can feel like Greece, Greece or Greece.
9. Family events can include everyone
A first birthday with what feels like 500 guests may still be described as a modest family gathering.
10. They may have the house blessed
House blessings and other Orthodox traditions are part of life for some Greek families, particularly around religious observances. Practices vary by family and community.
11. They tell you to eat again
Yes, this is number one repeated. You may have eaten already, but that is not especially persuasive evidence to a Greek mom.
The food, questions and traditions all come from the same unmistakable place: a Greek mom’s determined way of keeping the family close, cared for and very thoroughly fed.
For another family-centered story, read our quick and easy meals for busy families.
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